What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?
Last Updated: 25.06.2025 01:09

Sense of competition with persons who are important in the client’s life.
Off the top of my ancient head:
Disclosing feelings, fantasies, and experiences to the client in ways not related to the work the client is engaged in.
What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?
Session-expressed curiosities about client details not relevant to the therapy.
General Introduction to Boundaries from Panahi Counseling:
Obsessing about clients outside of work hours.
Nintendo Switch 2 doubles FPS of Switch 1’s “worst” performing games - Dexerto
Routinely going over the time limit with certain patients, compromising the time for the next client.
Eager anticipation (or anxious anticipation) of the next session in ways that distract.
Failing to mention the client in supervision/consultation, out of fear the supervisor/consultant will advise return to ordinary healthy boundaries.
It seems that I am cursed with bad luck. How do I break such a curse?
Frequent phoning or texting of clients to “check up on them and make sure they’re OK.”
Serious disappointment when the client cancels a session.
These items can happen fleetingly, briefly, in any therapy, but if they’re frequent, it’s definitely time for the therapist to get some good, solid supervision/consultation.
Mysterious sphere named Teleios found floating in the Milky Way - Earth.com
Struggling with fantasies of deeper connections with clients, whether sexual or parental or other intense or intimate relationships beyond psychotherapy.